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The First 3 Dates: What to Say • What to Watch • When to Walk

Date with confidence, not confusion—without over explaining, oversharing, or abandoning your standards.

 

🎯 WHO THIS IS FOR 

  • Smart, self-aware daters who still get swept up too fast

  • People who say “I don’t want to be dramatic” and then ignore red flags

  • Anyone who’s tired of hoping clarity will magically appear

 

🧠 CORE CONCEPT

The first 3 dates are not about impressing.
They’re about observing, calibrating, and deciding—without turning into a robot or a therapist.

This offer teaches:

  • How to keep it light without being passive

  • How to spot disrespect early without interrogating

  • How to walk away cleanly without spiraling or second-guessing

     

    📦 WHAT’S INSIDE:

     

    MODULE 1: DATE ONE – The Vibe Check

    “Chemistry is cheap. Character is not.”

    You’ll learn:

    • What to say that reveals intention (without sounding intense)

    • What people accidentally reveal on Date 1

    • The difference between charm and future-faking

    Includes:

    • “Fun but revealing” question list

    • Red flags people excuse on Date 1 (and shouldn’t)

    • Green flags most people overlook

    MODULE 2: DATE TWO – The Pattern Spotter

    “Consistency tells the truth.”

    You’ll learn:

    • How to notice effort without overanalyzing

    • What healthy pacing actually looks like

    • When curiosity turns into bread crumbing

    Includes:

    • The Boundary-in-Disguise framework
      (how to set limits without announcing them)

    • Follow-through checklist

    • Subtle power leaks to stop immediately

    MODULE 3: DATE THREE – Decide or Detach

    “Clarity is sexy. Confusion is not.”

    You’ll learn:

    • The exact moment you stop “seeing how it goes”

    • How to express expectations without ultimatums

    • When to walk—even if they’re “nice”

    Includes:

    • Decision-making flowchart (stay / pause / walk)

    • Detachment mindset reset

    • Signs you’re negotiating with potential instead of reality

    🔥 SAUCY BONUS 

    BONUS #1: Boundary Scripts That Don’t Kill the Mood

    Actual words to say when:

    • They push physical pace

    • They avoid making plans

    • They’re vague about what they want

    • You feel something is off but can’t name it

    Flirty. Calm. Self-respecting.
    Zero lectures.

    BONUS #2: The “No Second Date” Exit Texts

    Because ghosting isn’t empowered—and overexplaining is unnecessary.

    Includes:

    • Soft exits

    • Neutral exits

    • Firm exits

    • “You crossed a line” exits

    Short. Clean. Done.

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